I was pondering how one goes about praying. It's a very unusual form of communication.
When speaking to someone directly, I can observe their body language to sense if they are listening, interested in the topic, showing understanding to prompt me to continue, or ready to respond to some point that I just made.
When I talk on the phone or two-way radio, I can't take advantage of body language, but I can use vocal cues that might be verbal or simple sounds (mmmm-hmmm). This keeps the conversation flowing.
But these are typically forms of two-way communication. Both people take turns sharing their thoughts and ideas. What about other forms of communication that might be more like prayer, where the communication is one-way and perhaps omnidirectional?
Broadcast types of communication such as newspapers, magazines, television, radio, and some types of internet information all have many listeners and one speaker (at least conceptually). How does this form of communication function? For print media, there are subscriptions or other evidence that the information is being delivered. For radio and television, some might be by subscription, but others utilize Nielsen ratings to determine if the information is delivered. Even without ratings, a transmitting station can go out and test to see if their signal is being broadcast. It doesn't guarantee viewership, but at least confirms the message has been sent. Are similar tools available for prayer to verify that the message has been sent, or to know if the message has been received?
In all forms of terrestrial communication mentioned so far, there are some obvious means by which one can provide feedback. It's easy enough when speaking with someone to use body language or verbal cues. For print media, one can contact the publisher to give comments. Similar means are available for television and radio.
The means of feedback are either explicitly defined, or at least implicitly understood. We can use a phone or mail to contact printed and aired media, which are explicitly understood tools. We have been trained how to use them. When body language is used for feedback, we have implicitly learned the appropriate body language from our culture. It's understood (usually) what we mean. We don't have to be trained to use body language.
Feedback is the primary means to know that the message has been received. Whether it's implicit or explicit, the feedback is usually obvious to the one receiving it. That is its purpose. How do we hear God? How do we get feedback from prayer; is it obvious?
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